Become a Lie Detector!!!!!

Introduction to Detecting Lies:

The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used by police, and security experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions.

Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.

Signs of Deception:

Body Language of Lies:

• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.

• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.

• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.

Emotional Gestures & Contradiction

• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.

• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expression s and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.

• Gestures/expression s don't match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying "I love you."

• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.

Interactions and Reactions

• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.

• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.

• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.


Verbal Context and Content

• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, "Did you eat the last cookie?" The liar answers, "No, I did not eat the last cookie."

•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: " I didn't do it" instead of "I did not do it"

• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.

• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you.... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.

• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In otherwords, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized

Other signs of a lie:

• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject.

• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.

Final Notes: Obviously, just because someone exhibits one or more of these signs does not make them a liar. The above behaviors should be compared to a persons base (normal) behavior whenever possible.

If you have any comments to share or any queries about this stuff, don't hesitate to write below. Thank You!!!

How Single Woman can Celebrate Valentine's Day?

Step1

First, take time to remember that Valentine's Day represents celebrating love. Love comes in so many forms. We should remember to love ourselves. We should remember to love one another. We should remember to love our children. We should remember to love everyone that we care about, past and present. Love spans throughout every aspect of our lives and our life experiences and its up to you how you will celebrate love in your life!

Step2

Happy Love Day! Happy Love Day! If you are a single woman remember that you can celebrate Valentine's Day without having a partner! As I stated above you need to celebrate loving yourself! Do what YOU love this Valentine's Day! Some terrific examples of how you can treat yourself are: 1. Purchase a new outfit that you'll feel good in and even wear it on Valentine's Day. 2. Treat yourself to a manicure, pedicure, massage or a new hair cut and unveil it on Valentine's Day. 3. Go to your favorite restaurant and either eat in or take out to enjoy your favorite meal at home with a great movie!

Step3

Love your kids! Love your kids! If you have kids, make Valentine's Day about the love that you feel for them! Make a plan to celebrate together and smile and laugh! If you have pets, celebrate your special bond with them too!

Step4

Love your friends! Love your friends! If you have coworkers, suggest that everyone go to lunch or dinner together! Or, if you can't leave your office, order take out and have it delivered to the office brighten up your office day! Get a cake or have cookies made as well!
Step5 Think of some of your favorite movies and have a movie night alone or with loved ones! Comfy clothes, drinks and food and a good flick to celebrate Valentine's Day and make you feel good!

Step6

Have a fun Valentine's Day! Have a fun Valentine's Day! Have a girls' night out! Go to a great restaurant and toast the love you have with your girls! Throw on jeans and sneakers and go bowling for some great laughs if you prefer to go low key! Think of something that makes you happy and make it happen!

Step7

Treat yourself! Treat yourself! Last but not least, too often a single woman might focus on Valentine's Day for a couple and the gift that a woman might receive from her man, like a piece of jewelry. Well, why not purchase a piece of jewelry for yourself?? It can be expensive if you are able to afford it, but why not find something that is significant to you that you'll wear and love each day?!! Set a spending limit and start to search for a beautiful piece of jewelry. If you have a local store that sells handmade jewelry, go check out what they have. Love! Love! Remember that love comes in many forms and we can all find it in our lives! Love yourself each day and enjoy Valentine's Day!